<p>Um. Back on topic…</p>
<p>I think joining clubs and attending events would help a lot. I know you said that the webpages for most clubs haven’t been updated in years, but try looking for fliers posted around the school–those are usually the best way to find out about clubs, events, or anything else that might interest you. </p>
<p>At my college, students are also allowed to send (approved) mass announcement emails about an organization, clubs, meetings, events, etc. that are taking place. That could also be a good place to start. </p>
<p>Finally, if a else fails, consider forming your own commuter club. I doubt you’re the only commuter who feels left out at your college. It can be a great way to meet some people–who also can relate to your situation.</p>