We were in a queen all our married life until we moved to this house eight years ago. We both love the additional space in the king, but I must say I like the idea of separate bedrooms (not just beds). I know that DH would feel that I was moving away from him on every level if I were to press for that. He traveled 100% of the time for 17 years, home only on weekends, and I got used to sleeping (well) alone. He’s always hated sleeping alone, but we have such different bed habits. I like the room ice cold and often need to sleep with no covers as he is the opposite and likes the room warm. He also snores occasionally, and I hate earplugs, so I will sleep on the couch or in the guest room if his snoring wakes me up. I go to bed early, he goes to bed late and often wakes me up when he gets in. I think both in habits and behaviors we are excellent candidates for separate quarters, but I don’t think he could handle what such a move would represent to him emotionally.