I’m almost 60 years old and I don’t know how to shop for clothes

Ok nottelling, here’s the scoop. In my first box I asked for two sheath type dresses that could be dressed up or down. They sent me a sleeveless black dress with some different textures incorporated, and some lace above the bust line. The second was a short sleeved scoop neck fitted shift dress in a solid royal blue which I got many compliments on the first time I wore it . Neither dress was something I would have been inclined to try on if I’d seen them in a store, but I loved both of them when I got them on. They are more fitted dresses than I generally wear…They fit well, but I need my spanx! I also kept a pair of dark straight leg pants with a bit of a pattern on them. They are definitely out of my box, but are perfect for the environment I now work in.

The second box I asked for some “nice, but more casual” things, especially a nice jacket that would fall somewhere between a blazer and the Northface jackets I tend towards. They sent, and I kept, a very cool black and white lightweight patterned jacket that can be worn with jeans or either of the dresses. It is something that I likely would have overlooked in a store as it was so outside of my usual look. I also kept a subtly patterned shell top that is slightly oversized and a pair of nice black straight leg jeans that are of a lightweight denim that reads dressy as far as jeans go. These three pieces could all work together quite well.

I am amazed at how well most of the things they send me fit. I sent very detailed measurements which clearly helped!

Wow, pretty cool. Thanks for the report, Anxiousmom1!

You all inspired me to go shopping outside of my “box.” I would have never picked this dress, but here I am, wearing it and loving it!

http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/boss-hekata-stripe-fit-flare-dress/3912994

Guess what? A similarly patterned dress was featured on the front page of Stitchfix when I went to look at their site. :slight_smile:

What is amazing is that when I click on BB’s link, it shows the dress is not available in my area, but 25 miles away. Considering we even have a Boss store in our local mall, I would have assumed I could easily find this dress. This feature shows up most of the time.

Wear the dress well, BB.

Love that dress BB!!!

The Stitchfix thing. Are the brands they send typical brands you have heard of? Do they rely on certain manufacturers to provide a bulk of their clothing? I don’t think the concept is for me (I LOVE shopping - don’t take my shopping trips away from me!) but I’m curious.

Speaking of dresses, this week I can’t stop thinking about this one - great for fall, great with leggings and a cardigan in the winter…:
http://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=46833&vid=1&pid=724627002
http://athleta.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=46833&vid=1&pid=721782002

I was curious about the brands, too.

Cuuuute dress, abasket!

Wow, thanks Anxiousmom!! Those are very thorough descriptions and I can picture the pieces exactly! Really loving hearing about the service!

Very cute dress, abasket!

I received my Stitchfix box yesterday (a day ahead of schedule). Totally fun! I am probably going to keep 3 of the 5 pieces, which I think is kind of amazing for the first try by someone who’s never laid eyes on me! I’m having houseguests this weekend, but on Sunday I’ll come back and post details of the pieces and hopefully find some links. As far as the general experience:

@C3Baker is right, it was like Christmas. Inside the box, the items were wrapped in one bundle with tissue paper, with the stitchfix sticker holding it closed. On top were a note from my stylist, a bag for returning unwanted items, and a little card for each item showing how it could be put together with other things in the box or from my closet. Inside were two shirts (keeping one), a pant (returning, but not for the reason I thought when I first saw them), dark-wash trouser jeans (keeping – I was just bemoaning my lack of dark wash jeans last weekend!), and a necklace (keeping).

They’re right when they say to try everything on regardless of what you think when you open the box. I was really surprised by several of the items. I was also surprised that everything fit very well. That’s probably because of the level of detail of the profile. Not only do they ask what size you wear for tops, pants and dresses, but they also ask things like Are your shoulders wide, average, or narrow? Is your torso long, average, or short? So I’m sure the stylists know that for an average torso with wide shoulders, XYZ brand is going to be a good fit. Also, the colors were right up my alley, I’m sure because of the profile, where I was asked to rule out any colors I didn’t want. The profile is VERY detailed lol.

For those interested in the service, they strongly encourage you to set up a Stitchfix pinterest board which you can link in your profile. I’m a pinterest newbie, and at this point there’s only one picture on mine. The stylist gently suggested that I throw a few more pictures up there before my next “fix.” Which I’m already looking forward to! :slight_smile:

ETA – That sweater I bought 3 of from Nordstrom? I’m buying more. It’s just a fantastic summer sweater.

LasMa…how are the prices on the items in your StichFix box? It does sound totally like Christmas!

I’ve been following this thread with interest - I’ve worked virtually (when I’ve worked) for the last 15 years so have little need for professional clothes. Most of my wardrobe is casual hang around or casual dressy. And we just moved to San Diego, where casual is the rule of the day and little need for long pants. I do have an idea of what looks right and wrong on me, and very definite ideas on color and patterns (learned I was a winter decades ago). So it’s sometimes hard to find items to try on. Also, with such a casual lifestyle, I just can’t bring myself to spend much money on clothes. If I ever needed to step up my wardrobe I would consider a Nordstrom’s shopper.

Some of the dresses above reminded me of this dress I recently bought at Kohl’s; it looks surprisingly well on my post-60 overweight body; the pattern disguises many of the bulges. It’s very comfortable and can be dressed up or down with different sandals and jewelry. And DH thinks it’s very attractive, not a deciding factor but a nice bonus. And it really sets off my new tan!

http://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2069664/apt-9-print-t-shirt-dress-womens.jsp

@Marilyn, that’s a cute dress. I think I have enough in my current wardrobe. I never wore many dresses, but lately it’s been SO hot (90s and above), that I have started wearing dresses and shorts and tank tops MUCH more than all my previous summers. Dresses do look nice for professional & festive events as well.

Another wondering how much items in stichfix are. Sounds like eharmony for clothes.

Stitch Fix says that the average price is $55 per piece. But there’s a pretty high standard of deviation so you can’t really glean a lot of info from the average price. As an example, in my shipment I had a $78 dress (which I thought really could/should have been more expensive), a $98 pair of crop pants (which I think were way overpriced), two blouses - one was $38 and one was $48, and a necklace for $28. I got a 25% discount because I kept everything so with tax it totaled $233. So my price per piece was below average at approximately $47. It’s the 25% discount for keeping everything that really helps - or in my case, convinces me to keep something that’s borderline in order to get the savings.

LasMa-I’m glad you were happy with what you got!

It’s good to hear others are also happy with the service! I think a lot of their market is 20 and 30-somethings and so a lot of what I see in reviews is much more trendy than what I like to wear. I’m hoping that they will continue to have more classic, “timeless”, items available.

Hi gang! I worked out hard tonight and I’m too tired to hunt down links, so I’ll just describe my Stitch Fix box, if that’s OK. :slight_smile:

First, the ones I knew right away I wanted to keep:

  1. Trouser jeans, wide leg, dark wash. I've never had trouser jeans, never wanted to have them. I'm strictly a Levi's 501/515 girl. But I tried them on and was shocked that I loved them. A dressier blue jean has evidently been a hole in my wardrobe, now filled.
  2. Navy/white print knit top, sleeveless, wrap-effect, ruching around the midsection. When I took it out of the box and held it up, it looked wayyyy low cut, as in, a cami would be mandatory (I don't do cleavage). But when I got it on, it was perfect. Nice V-neck, but good coverage. My other concern was that it's a knit, which I shy away from as I'm still shrinking the bits of fluff :) in my midsection. But between the ruching and the fairly busy print, it camouflages things very well. As the fluff continues to melt, the shirt will only look better and better. I tried it with one of my new Nordie sweaters, and it will be great for work.
  3. Gold necklace. It's double strand, thick strands, which are knotted together every 9 inches or so. It's very long, so it can be worn that way, or doubled, or tripled. I have a few fine jewelry necklaces (like 3), but zero everyday ones, and I think this will be versatile and a start to an everyday neckwear wardrobe.

The ones I rejected at first:

  1. Turquoise blouse, 3/4 sleeve, silky-feeling fabric. The color is fabulous, the fit is great, and it floats away from the body in that way I like. What I didn't like was the length. I feel like my long legs are one of the best things I have going for me, so I always want tops that go no lower than my hips. This shirt is halfway to a tunic; it covers my rear, and somehow didn't look right tucked in.
  2. Straight leg cropped pants, in a small black and white print. My objections were numerous: I don't wear straight leg, I don't wear cropped, pants aren't supposed to be print.

When I sent pictures to D, she lobbied hard for the pants especially. They were her favorite piece of the 5. But they were just too radical for me so I decided against them.

Enter SIL, who was here for the weekend. She’s of course about my age and, unlike me, she knows clothes. She was fascinated by the Stitch Fix concept, and we went through my box. She loved the print pants too, and at her request I modeled them, paired with the turquoise blouse, and even I could see that that was a great combination. SIL went nuts. “You HAVE to keep them!” One thing I’m learning is to trust the fashion-savvy women in my life, and with both SIL and D reacting so strongly, I did keep them. :slight_smile:

The total, with the 25% discount, was $216, so $43 average per piece, which is about what all those Nordstrom shirts and sweaters averaged.

But wait! The shopping binge continued over the weekend. I’m going to a formal event, and had planned to wear this sad knit black dress I bought during a panic-shopping trip 4 years ago. My hope was to accessorize it enough that I wouldn’t be the worst-dressed woman in the room (this was the extent of my aspirations before this adventure began). I sent D a picture and her verdict was “Absolutely not. Promise me you’ll go see your Nordstrom personal shopper.” So I did, and ended up with this! (in the navy)

http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/tadashi-shoji-embroidered-lace-sheath-dress-regular-petite/3434946?cm_em=&cm_mmc=email_tran--081715--ship_confirm-_-productimg1

And finally, last night I ordered this. I’ve read more than once that every woman should have one in her wardrobe. I got it for $40, between the sale and a coupon that was included in my last order. I have wanted it for more than 30 years, and decided to give it to myself as a birthday present:

http://www.levi.com/US/en_US/womens-clothing-jackets-vests/p/702400073

You go girl! That dress is gorgeous and finally buying a jean jacket is a major life event.

Wow, Lasma. Soon you’ll be the fashionista the rest of us ask for advice. Love the dress. I was looking at that dress for S1’s wedding until I found out we were wearing long dresses. Very pretty choice, and much better than the black dress you already own.

LasMa: I love the look you are creating and appreciate you sharing the journey with all of us. I adore the navy dress.

LasMa - the dress is gorgeous! Like you I put my trust in my D who is my fashion guru and I have not been disappointed in what she suggests. I have two jean jackets (dark wash and light wash) and a jean vest.

I have been following this thread and really appreciate all the information and links that everyone has posted. I am really pathetic about shopping, style, etc. LasMa is way ahead of me. But this has given me some things to think about and maybe I will venture back into a store to go shopping. I had pretty much given up. Its been years since I’ve really gone shopping. Most of my clothes come from LL Bean and Land’s End (yes, even for work).

LasMa – Thanks for the update! I have that same dress in another color and have been very pleased with it! Love hearing the details of your Stitchfix box!

How has it felt wearing your new clothes? Are you continuing to enjoy them?