Who said anything mean to you? WayOutWestMom gave her usual very helpful advice, chargerparent agreed, IWBB raised concerns about the workability of your plan, artloversplus only gave the opinion you asked for, and WayOutWestMom AGAIN gave you very very useful information that I’d think you’d like to know.
So what you really want is just for people to agree with you? There was a WEALTH of information given here, including some troubling info in post #7 that will DEFINITELY AFFECT your plan going forward. I don’t understand why you’re dismissing all of it as being mean. What haters! Spending their free time to tell you, “What you have in mind isn’t possible, but here’s what you could do instead.”