<p>The fact that you had to ask means the cost is an issue for you. When that’s the case, it’s a no-brainer to take the full-ride from a decent school over any top school (including Harvard) at full-cost.</p>
<p>You may make some deals with her like saving the money for her graduate school later or giving her a new car, etc. so she doesn’t feel like she got a raw deal for being the first-born and sacrificing too much for the younger siblings.</p>