<p>Wow, thanks for the replies everyone, especially Christopher. Thank you for that exhaustive post!</p>
<p>I haven’t experienced outright homophobia at frat parties, and I’ve been to quite a few. My comment was more a reflection of the lack of homosexuals in Greek life and at frat parties in general. It wasn’t meant to be a diss or an accusation. Furthermore, I probably haven’t been going to the best frat parties (in fact, I know for a fact I haven’t been), so my impression of Greek life is probably fairly skewed. But with all that said, I don’t have much of an opinion. The frat parties I’ve been to haven’t been very enjoyable for me - I guess that’s an opinion.</p>
<p>I should go try out an Oscar Wilde party. I’ve never been to a co-op party. I’m not really looking for a one-night-stand though.</p>
<p>I think my main problem is, I’m not very flamboyant or outspoken about my sexuality. I’m out of the closet, but a lot of people probably don’t know I’m gay simply because I don’t talk about it much. I think that makes it hard for me to meet people, especially because I’m not really into super stereotypically gay guys. :</p>