I need help...please?!?

[crknwk2000]

@Lindagaf

To answer the question, I do think you are misinterpreting some of what is going on with that group. I think you are seeing everything as a slight against yourself and a deliberate exclusion of yourself. I doubt that anyone’s actions are that deliberate, especially towards you. I suspect that you’ve found yourself in a similar position to the nearly 17,000 other people who have read the post I linked above, and you’re taking things too personally. When you’re feeling alone and awkward and lonely and uncertain about the new place you’ve just moved to, yes, it’s easy to believe the worst.

Please have some perspective. There is nothing wrong with you that isn’t wrong with tens of thousands of other kids who are freshmen in college. All those kids who you THINK have solid friendships, well, some do, most probably don’t. You need to give it time because good friendships don’t happen in just a few months. You haven’t been left out as much as you just haven’t found all of your people yet. None of these early friendships are set in stone. You can always keep making friends.

All of the above YES!! Really everything @Lindagaf wrote, YES!!!

Give it time, OP, realize you’re not the only one who feels this way even if from the outside it looks like others are doing great–everyone feels like this at some point, promise. I do think you’re probably misinterpreting some of the actions of the group. Young adults your age can be clueless and very self-focused. Be careful not to let what you think is happening take you down a road of “they don’t like me.” Once you go there in your mind you can sometimes make that happen by giving off that vibe. Stay positive, keep putting yourself out there and I promise, it’ll get better.
It really does take time. You’ll find your people. BIG HUG!!! You got this