As long as your parents don’t own a business or have substantial assets, you will have to pay very little. Either no loans or minimal loans. And even with a business or farm you may be ok, it depends on how things are set up and what kind of business.
Google college 100 financial aid. There are several lists of schools in the top results. You should focus on these schools if you are academically qualified. These will most likely be cheaper than any in state school except UNC, which is on the lists. Although I am not familiar with NC and what aid they give in state students.
Cross any out of state public not on those lists off of your list. Also cross off NYU. They will give you loans you can’t afford.