Unless you see a low cost school in the U.S., like an Alabama, Miss State, UAH, WVU, C Michigan, U Kansas or others, you really have no choice.
I can’t imagine you’ll get need aid at a $250k salary. There are no undergrad schools worth $100k, $200k, even $300k in loans as Penn would be. Run the NPC - aid could happen but it’s doubtful.
Not a single one in my opinion.
Given kids today can’t easily find internships and you have them built in, this seems a pretty simple choice to me.
But if you stay here, it’s going to be at a budget meeting school - which I put at $30k so you can use the $5500 allowed student loan. Hence the schools - and there are others - that I mentioned.