I’ll share a story!
Someone told me about a huge birthday surprise party given for her.
It was being held in a big tent in her own backyard. Her husband took her out for errands all morning. When she returned, her adult kids & grandkids from out of town poured out of the house to wish her a happy birthday.
Then, they took her by the arm and led her to the backyard to see the set-up, and explained that in X hours, a slew of friends and more family were coming to celebrate.
She said it was perfect for her. It was a complete surprise, but the surprise was held early. She had enough time to spend alone with family. She had time to get in the party mindset. She had time to pick out just the right outfit and be ready. She said it was perfect for her.
This is an idea that would never occur to me, but I thought it was brilliant and it has stuck with me!
Have fun!