<p>It truely is the thought that counts. You know what she likes by now, and you probably know that she doesn’t indulge in many things because she spends the time/money on her kids instead. I was thrilled when my son remembered mine and spontaneously wished me a happy bday. I can buy anything I want, but to have my H indulge me with a small box of chocolates meant he cared about me, not what is good for me. Splurging on something frivolous is the best way to show your love- if it means only $5 spent on a few fancy chocolates (if she’s a chocoholic) that she wouldn’t buy for herself, or giving your time to do something with her she’ll cherish it because you showed you care. PS- many years ago my sister and I struggled with gift ideas for our mom, we knew what she would enjoy, but there was no way we were going to buy her cigarettes!</p>
<p>My daughter did the photo book on ofoto or kodak. I don’t think it cost more than 20. Spend what you could afford.</p>
<p>Timely thread. My birthday was yesterday and the best gift I received was a gift certificate for a pedicure. My feet are now happy and will soon be pampered:) The perfect gift for me.</p>
<p>Every mom is different.</p>
<p>Dogwood may love that pedicure, but I would hate it. On the other hand, if one of my kids offered to clean out my incredibly cluttered walk-in closet as a birthday treat, I would love it.</p>
<p>I bet you know your mom well enough to make a good choice.</p>