“asians in my region are very competitive, what do you suggest i do”
There’s nothing that you CAN do, if you’re already in the college app season and your family is settled in. And it’s obviously not realistic for most families to just up-and-leave for another State, but such a move has been done successfully before. There are so many wonderful colleges that will still provide enormous opportunity, intellectually and career-wise, beyond the so-called “top 10” in the nation… Many Elite U’s also admit transfer students (although in those cases the admit rate is usually about the same as for freshman admits). Also, in many cases there is an advantage to performing on a spectacular level in undergrad and then applying to grad school for an even higher-ranked grad school. Happens all the time. Depends partly on what the major is. Also, students have been known to go to an outstanding Canadian U, then apply to grad or professional school to a U.S. Institution.
Mostly, students who have assumed it would herald their personal Apocalypses if they were not admitted to the Ivy League, have not discovered such a result, but have taken advantage of wonderful opportunities elsewhere, which in turn have qualified them for even more schools later.