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You can always count on me curious.
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<p>As one who doesn’t want to change the essential character of the colleges my D liked in the search (among those that were uber-selective, a majority of her’s were not), I have no problem with the legacies at the relatively few schools where such things matter. </p>
<p>I liked the trustafarians at Middlebury. The obvious preps at Colgate. The arties at Grinnell. I wouldn’t want to change a thing (that would change the essential character of the student body). The way the school feels is why the kid and/or I liked the school in the beginning. The balance of kids there. The types of kids there. Unlike some of y’all, how the kids felt to D when she interacted with them, when she spent time with them , during any opportunity she had to observe them was the #1 reason she put schools on or took schools off her various lists. Not how she made the ultimate decision, mind you, but one measure of initial qualification - she liked the majority of the kids she met. Wanted to be a around them. If you pull any of the groups , the pool changes. Change FA to where there is not as many Pell kids in the mix? Changes the character of the school. Turn it into a best test score wins school ? She’ll transfer tommorrow . That’s not where she wants to be (and she has the best test score). </p>
<p>There are stats schools for people who want that. The fights come when people want to impose their stats school model on the uber-selectives who reject it. It’s just another example of prestige hounds . Gotta have prestigious or bust, because little Johnny is good enough , he’s smart enough …and by golly… he DESERVES it. </p>
<p>I like the selection process the way it is. (The application process can be improved.) I like it holistic. I wish people understood it better. I wish schools would allow more peeks behind the curtain , but I think the biggest problem -as shown time and time again , is that folks just don’t want to understand . But I know what they want. They want to %$#$% about any system that doesn’t reward their little Johnny. </p>
<p>Remember , I’m guilty , too. I rant and rave about the deference paid to that stinkin’ National Merit designation when there are lots more defining measures (that my kid had ;)). </p>
<p>So, I’ll defend legacy as part of the process we love to hate.</p>
<p>I do believe there is a place for alumni loyalty to be rewarded. A tiny boost among qualified kids? Sure. I’d expect it from my alma mater. I believe it benefits the college and the alumni and keeps the college’s name before the legacy children their whole life. Another thing D learned in her search-she wanted to go to a school where kids were proud of where they attended. Not wishing they were at HYP. I think legacy kids may help there also. </p>
<p>As to that meritorious kid left out in the cold? There’s other schools that will love him. Not everything is about numbers or academics. We’re making a quilt. (I know that just kills y’all “by the stats only” folks. LOL. )</p>