<p>At your age, it is probbly time for parents to let you in on a little secret. We are scared for ourselves and you, we often don’t know what we are doing, we make bad decisions for you, we make bad decisions for ourlselves, sometimes events happen that neither kid nor parent can expect. </p>
<p>So, you are probably somewhat dependent on your mom/parents. So you have to deal with it a bit. Of all the options not sayign anythng and crying is probably not the worst, but there is probably a better way t go. </p>
<p>Also, you should be expected to do some things wrong as a’learning experience’</p>
<p>At a non-adversarial moment try to tell your mom…" I know this may not be a perfect sitiuation, but I want to make the most of it. I can take care of the little things, reading official mail, telling you when things will be due so you arent surprised, buying toothpaste. Taking care of health needs 9whatver they maybe) I still need your help with the big things, money for school, advice on career, I need to know you are a backstop and saftey net --at least for now "</p>
<p>See what you think</p>