<p>go read “The Teenage Liberation Handbook” by Grace Llewellyn.
<a href=“http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962959170/qid=1118270595/sr=8-1/ref=pd_csp_1/002-0771460-0305669?v=glance&s=books&n=507846[/url]”>http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0962959170/qid=1118270595/sr=8-1/ref=pd_csp_1/002-0771460-0305669?v=glance&s=books&n=507846</a></p>