<p>I’ll echo a bit of what WP2010MOM has said since we’ve just returned from PPW. My son is having an amazing time at West Point. It’s not a stroll down the yellow brick road, and certainly he’s had to deal with some jerks, but for the most part he’s had nothing but the utmost praise for his PL’s, TAC’s, and for the upper classmen in general. </p>
<p>When he left for Beast I suggested he pay close attention to the various leadership styles, I told him that they would vary in quality from excellent to abysmal, and I urged him to remember that when it’s his turn to lead to take his lessons from the best. He’s had many exceptional role models and I’m glad to say that at least in his experience poor leaders are very few and far between.</p>
<p>Through his sports activities my son’s also had several opportunities to interact with students from other colleges, including those of the Ivy League. When I asked him if they’re basically the same as he and his fellow West Pointers his response was, “They are nothing like us”. His tone suggested he had made the best choice possible for himself and that he was very grateful to be where he is. Of course he flees WP like a convict escaping Sing Sing every opportunity he gets.</p>
<p>All that being said, Geoffa’s experiences have been very different. While there’s a lot you can do to make or break your experience at West Point clearly not everything is in your control. But still there’s hope for those who stay. My understanding is that as you progress in years and experience you are in a better position to apply your own leadership style; the cadets run West Point to a fairly large extent and your time to make your mark is in your final two years.</p>
<p>Whatever you decide Geoffa, the best of luck and great success to you.</p>