With your stats, you might as well “shoot the moon” and try for Harvard, Yale, Princeton, and Columbia (any or all of them) - they all have deep pockets, and might well provide you with a decent financial aid package. Harvard provides aid to families with 6-figure incomes. It’s worth running the NPC for any of them. Definitely look at Tulane: you will probably qualify for a nice merit scholarship from them. Tulane also has a non-binding Early Notification option, so that you can apply to them as a near-safety, and receive word (including merit scholarship announcement) by December.