Yes, the college admissions landscape is quite different now from 20 years ago, even different from 5 years ago, and it will probably continue to shift and change as your 7th grader gets older!
Please don’t start getting into this in 7th grade ![]()
It’s great to feel inspired by things he sees when visiting friends and relatives (like your airplane turbines story)… I remember visiting my aunt who was doing a PhD in geophysics, and being really excited about how she was using an electron microscope to take pictures of moon rocks. This kind of experience might get a kid excited about learning more about a subject or a possible future career. But try not to encourage him to get attached to specific dream colleges, try not to shape his interests by what you think colleges are looking for … and especially try not to pressure him with things like GPA and SAT and number of APs and leadership positions in ECs.
Google “MIT applying sideways” for a helpful perspective that is great for prospective college applicants (and their parents) in any grade!