Most US colleges are need aware for international students and they don’t meet need. It sounds like you’ll require a lot of aid, and only a few colleges in the US are need blind for admissions. I don’t know how many meet need (as determined by their financial aid office). If you search CC for need blind schools and/or colleges that meet need you’ll probably find them. If you can’t find the list you’ll have to go to the financial aid page of each school and look for their policy on financial aid for international students.
You’re looking for a lot of information. It’s great that you’re thinking about those things, but most of us don’t know the schools well enough to give you those details. Colleges change, so the amount of aid offered and graduation requirements, etc., from last year may not be the same this year. I understand your frustrations. I think the best thing you can do is to find the list of schools that meet need for international students then research them and target the ones where you stand a chance of being accepted.