Think realistically, will you be able to play soccer at Arcadia and manage the grades to stay in the engineering program/keep a good GPA to move on to Columbia? As @mikemac and many other people say, it is so difficult to maintain a 3.0.
Stevens Insititute of Technology is a very nice school, close to NY, where you will have more of a focus on engineering. I really haven’t heard of Arcadia pumping out many engineers into the work force…Unfortunately, with the career path you’ve chosen, it may be difficult to balance soccer at all. Playing intramural or kicking it around every now and then with some buddies may be more beneficial to stay in shape and stay relatively fine academically; soccer may have to be sacrificed anyways.