Look. At some point you will have to decide between the two. I read on your other posts that they are financially the same to attend for you. Go with your gut, and stop overanalyzing. Both schools are excellent. There is no wrong choice. From your own analysis it sounds like both schools have enough of what you want academically and musically, so comes down to where you can see yourself and find likeminded peers. Is being close to family important? Which would be easier to get home from for a long weekend if you felt the need to escape? Which social scene is more appealing? What student body feels more like “your people”? Which has better dorms? Make a list of all the things you love about each school and see what list is longer. Do it quickly, right off the top of you’re head. That will give you an indication of where you’re heart wants you to go and then commit!