<p>D wanted a particular kind of school in the northeast, and she did not want the pressure of going for reaches, so I helped her with the research to find good candidates. After two trips together (plus she went on one short one alone) and tons of online research (including here), her list was whittled down to 6, 3 of which were EA. After getting into all three EA, she decided not to apply to the 6th, which had a very late application deadline (Muhlenberg). </p>
<p>So it came down to a very short (by today’s standards) list of 5.</p>
<p>We have been quite surprised with her success-- 4 for 4, with good merit aid at all (American, Clark, Dickinson and Goucher). Waiting on Conn College this evening, but they don’t give merit. We are assuming that her essay and letters of rec really connected, because while her stats were solid, they were nothing amazing compared to the achievers on this forum.</p>
<p>This site is so very helpful, but it can also increase anxiety. D was probably more of a candidate for the next-up tier (Vassar, Wesleyan, Tufts, Brandeis) than we thought, but no regrets-- she’s very happy with her choices, and we need the merit aid! She wouldn’t have gotten it at those higher-ups.</p>
<p>Gluckie, your child has fantastic stats. If you can help her find some schools she really loves that aren’t the famous elites, she’ll do great and get some money.</p>
<p>The kids I know who are getting no merit aid and/or nothing but waitlists and rejections are the ones who insisted on only the big-deal, name-brand schools. </p>
<p>I actually enjoyed the whole process, but now I’m ready for it to be OVER WITH! I wish D would decide, so we could all move on, but I fear April will be a long month.</p>