OP, as nearly everyone else has said, live wherever you feel comfortable. I would also add that it is especially not a good choice to live in an LGBT community if it isn’t safe/feasible to come out to your dad. There would be too many opportunities for him to find out. Some people find a safe haven in LGBT communities, others prefer to not be restricted in their friend groups and living arrangements. I understand not wanting to feel limited to stereotypes or perhaps feeling like your worldview doesn’t fit in with this particular community of people. There’s nothing offensive or wrong about that. Good luck!