<p>While his actions might not make sense to us, he can certainly apply wherever he wants. Perhaps there is more to the story. Could he be comparing financial aid packages? I know from my own childrens’ friends, that teenagers often say things that do not reflect the true picture. Perhaps his parents have a preference other than Harvard or they might prefer him attending college a little closer to home. Maybe they are thinking they can change his mind if he is given options. Who knows? But OP I think you have to separate your college acceptances from your friends. I also agree with intparent, the less you speak of college applications to your peers, the better off you are!</p>