<p>Cardfan–you don’t have to believe it. If you don’t recommend people be on the discussion, then you should also avoid it and stop going on.
It really about how the OP and the friend feels. It wasn’t an email so technical error can’t be the one to blame. Most likely its due to human error when they sent out the packages. Unless the OP really has no life and decides to waste his/her time writing so much just to be a ■■■■■, there must be some truth to the story (note: it might not all be true).</p>