Of course nobody can predict how any one admissions officer will read any one application – but on the whole I disagree with the notion that colleges will not accept you if you are honest in your application (exception being very religious/conservative schools like BYU, Liberty, etc.).
IMO best to present yourself honestly and let things fall where they may. Your top picks (which by the way all have gender neutral housing) have acceptance rates under 5% and are absolute reaches for any unhooked applicant. Focus on creating a well considered application list with reach, match, and safety schools that appear affordable and that you would be excited to attend.
Agree with @Shelby_Balik that it would be a good idea to contact LGBTQ+ groups on campus or if you visit campus, see if you can make an appointment and speak with a representative.