<p>Wash U people are very friendly, including the frats. S, who graduated last year, was in a frat which had, at least one gay member–and the context in which he mentioned this to me had nothing to do with the guy being gay–it was just sort of a parenthetical. Apparently no one thought it was any big deal. Go for Wash U–the administration “runs like buttah” and treats students and parents very well!</p>