<p>I disagree with what this man is saying. Perhaps I didnt get the gist of it too well but to me it sounds like hes saying that pursuing your dreams is a bunch of BS and you should just get married, have kids, and a decent job like everyone else instead of having optimistic ideals that people can obtain their dreams if they work hard enough. This guy sounds like hes just ****in in everyones cereal. I mean, isnt that what life is? Making goals for yourself and accomplishing them? Dreams are already hard enough to obtain we dont need people saying ‘give up it’ll never happen’. I think you should be smart and make a plan B just incase because you cant live life without being realistic. You SHOULD chase your dreams and if it doesnt work out like this guy is saying it wont then at a certain point hopefully you will realize it isnt working and can go in a different direction. The chance of maybe not reaching your goals isnt a reason to not chase them at all. </p>
<p>He just sounds really negative. If you lived your life the way your grandma wants you to and just settle for the ‘normal’ life of getting married and having kids because its safe it will make you even more unhappy in the long run when you wonder what life what have been like if you were strong enough and believe in yourself enough to follow your dreams. Just my opinion. Maybe im missing what this guy is trying to say but it seems like hes pushing conformity because its a safe option.</p>