I’m not sure where this thread is going, but it feels kind of all over the place at the moment. So I guess I’ll keep up with that theme 
First - random gift link to a WaPo article today titled “Jobs that earn six figures without going to college (and why they are rare)” https://wapo.st/4rt8h0Y (it IS a gift link, it might make you put in an email, but then it will let you read it without a subscription).
Of course, this forum is for folks who are going to college, and generally the graduates thereof, so it’s not really on point. But I think the argument it’s making - that you can make a good living but not an immediate amazing living - is relevant to some of what we’ve discussed here.
I also think, part of what’s getting us off topic, is the discussion of ROI and whether that’s good or important or valuable. I think that’s a very personal decision, and really not one for debating when we’re talking job prospects. I will tell you (and I’ve said it before on the threads about going to a “lesser” but less expensive school) - graduating from law school with no debt was an amazing gift. It made it so that I could pursue very different job prospects than my peers, because I didn’t have loans to pay back. In that sense, I feel like my parents set me up very well for success, and I’m trying to do the same for my children, to give them the opportunity to pursue whatever career fits their skills an interests and passions.
In retrospect, I never should have gone to law school. While I’m sure that the education helped me - in the same way that I think a liberal arts education helps generally - by making me a better thinker and writer and perhaps creative problem solver, I’ve never practiced. I didn’t have to go to law school to get the jobs I’ve had, I could’ve gotten an MPP, MPA, or MPH - none of which I knew existed at the time I was graduating college. So my goal has been to give my children the space and grace to figure out what’s out there, and what they want, and how to get there.
As it so happens, both my boys chose career fields that are reasonably likely to have pretty clear college - to - job career paths. I sometimes worry that they locked themselves in too early without taking the time and space to do that exploring. But no path is ever closed, you can always pivot if you’re willing to do the work to make the pivot.
And in the “what about my guys” vein - thank you @EconPop for the kind words re: my college sophomore. He’s a hard worker, and I think will be a good colleague and someday supervisor, because, of my three guys (counting my husband) he clearly has the highest Emotional IQ. He has his moments (he’s also the biggest smart@ss sometimes) but he’s a good guy, who I think people will want to work with and for someday. As it turns out, he now HAS gotten the second offer from his summer employer for a job in a different aspect of the company for this up coming summer. He’s excited and I’m excited for him.