<p>Thanks for all the responses and great advice. I continue to stress the positives and hope this has all blown over by the time we both get home from work. H called the school and they were very nice. They said that last year no one that was put in this dorm requested a change of room at the 2 week mark, and that of the 11 move requests they got last year for the campus they were able to accomodate 10. I am sure it will all work out - it is just with her so far away, blah, blah, blah… You get the idea. Thanks again.</p>