Having high standards is fine but what happens when you do not get into any of the schools on your list. None of these schools can be considered a safety at the moment. UC Merced would be a safety if you are in the top 9% of your HS or statewide (ELC). ELC guarantees students that are not accepted into their choice UC, they will be referred to UC Merced if room is available.
You need a backup plan so if your parents are not happy with the Cal states, how do they feel about community college?