<p>Goodkidsdad, what does your son want to do? Where does your son want to work? What does your son want to do as a career? You state that you don’t want him to be near cutthroats who want a spot at Deloitte, but does your son want to work at one of those companies? Does your son want to work for a big firm or move out of Indiana, or does he want to work at a firm with offices in Indianapolis or stay in Indiana?</p>
<p>Sometimes what you want for your kids may not match what they themselves actually desire.</p>