<p>From what I know (I haven’t been there, not sure to be honest I want to go there, too many people I knew died there), the restaurant is upstairs from the actual museum. I can understand those who feel that the gift shop and restaurant are inappropriate, I can understand those who lost loved ones their objecting to it. For me personally, I lost people I knew there, quite a few, and it doesn’t bother me, it is the fact that they are being remembered that is the important thing, that hopefully as a museum, in some ways like the holocaust museum, it is a reminder of the horrors humans can inflict on one another and to say “never again”, plus remembering real people died there. If the purpose of the party last night was to get well heeled and/or high heeled donors to support the museum, it wasn’t some vapid event. Likewise, if revenue from the gift store and restaurant go to support the museum, as long as they aren’t profit centers for some outside vendor, I can’t really object (and again, this is just me, I cannot say others are wrong). Put it this way, if the restaurant is run by some restaurant guy to add to their empire of chic restaurants, I would be upset, but if the restaurant is there to serve the people who are going to the museum, rather than drawing people in as ‘the restaurant at the WTC memorial’, and the restaurant and gift shop’s profits support the memorial, I don’t have a problem, if it lines the pockets of whoever is running it, I do. </p>
<p>It is funny about memorials, they can make some people feel better, others angry. My dad was a WWII combat veteran, fought from the invasion of France to the end as part of the 3rd army, and he kind of hated the fuss that people like Stephan Ambrose or Tom Brokaw made about his generation, and he wasn’t fond of the memorials, he said to him it glorified something that shouldn’t be glorified, that it made war seem like something it isn’t, that is glorious or somehow sanctified, when to him it was just a brual, ugly reality if a necessity…everyone has their reasons for feeling as they do, and unfortunately with something like this it is hard to please everyone or not create controversy. Muslims claim the museum goes to far in describing those who were responsible for 9/11 as being driven by their faith, those who lost people aren’t happy that the Museum is too ‘secular’ and that the possible remains of those lost have been lost in building the site, and the list goes on…</p>
<p>It is kind of ironic, not long after 9/11 when they had the temporary wall at street level listing the names of those who perished and such, there were street vendors selling t shirts and such, and at a time when I wasn’t feeling all that great, it kind of made me smile, it is just such a NY thing, hustling a buck off of something…</p>