Lehigh Chances??

I have looked at richmond and i did really like it! UPenn however scares me because they dont seem like very nice people, i met an admissions officer and she just lived up to that name. Its also very cutthroat i hear.
Barnard i have also looked at, but i am not a fan of New York city at all, i just don’t think i could love there.
Are vandy so test centric that they would turn their nose up at a 30 ACT as well?
What are your thoughts on Cornell and bowdoin?
P.s thank you for helping me with ideas i’m really appreciating it!