<p>This is such an emotional time for all. One word of caution would be to take each day as it comes without expectations. Every new cadet has good days and bad. Some will choose to dump their bad days on parents others will not. If your new cadet is struggling, know that he/she is in good company and things will get better. If your new cadet is doing fabulously, know that there may be bumps down the road - few cadets have a smooth 4 year ride.</p>