<p>My D spent a weekend at Oberlin and loved it. Another friend visited during “Tranny Appreciation Week” and decided Oberlin was too liberal for him. Different strokes for different folks. </p>
<p>I agree with mamenyu: Frankly, I don’t get the OP. He has thrown out a hearsay comment from a friend of his whose kid loves the school and then wants to debate a comment from the kid’s other son as to whether Oberlin has crossed some line of decorum. To what purpose exactly? Clearly at this point he’s got enough conflicting information that if he really wants to separate fact from myth he’d ought to visit Oberlin himself.</p>