<p>Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can’t tell you how much this advice helps! and thank you for the suggestions of the other schools that were totally off my radar screen! </p>
<p>The birth control issue is a huge elephant in the room for me. The idea of forking over a huge chunk of my retirement savings to an institution that does not offer reproductive health care to women seriously pains me. But I feel like I can compensate for my own child by forcing her to go to private doctors near her school for regular check-ups (while also preserving her privacy). This truly is an ethical dilemma for me. But for now, I am turning a blind eye to this issue. Whether doing so is a terrible thing to do is a subject for another thread.</p>
<p>So, regretfully putting aside that particular issue, I’d love to hear from others on the original question.</p>
<p>Thanks again!</p>