Colleges are often hyped on CC as being “lottery ticket” admits, @penngirlpending. However, if you are a strong student, many doors will be open to you. Bates, for example, recently accepted 23% of female applicants (28% for males) and Colby 30%. Though far from easy admits, quality schools such as these are not impossible to get into either.
Schools accept female and male applicants in different percentages because these groups apply to certain colleges disproportionately and colleges (and students) prefer gender balanced classes. As examples, Bates has a higher acceptance rate for men, Colby has a higher acceptance rate for women and Hamilton is nearly neutral.
For the full source on post 2, search “Undergrad to MBA” in this forum. juillet’s link in post 1 should help you as well.
Grinnell matches some of your criteria.