<p>Didn’t address of few of your concerns. I don’t have the likely letter in hand so can’t tell you if we need to respond. I do know that it is not considered “ethical” to be telling more than one coach that you have chosen them as #1. My understanding is that no one will issue a “likely letter” unless you are committing to them. It comes down to being ethical and honest and you are hoping that the coaches are treating you with the same respect. These are the Ivies and there are other kids wanting the spot if you are not serious with the school. You really end up having to make a decision similar to ED.</p>