<p>I have a question. I met the adcom when she came to my school in October and introduced myself, although I’m quite positive she probably doesn’t remember. I got deferred, and I’d like to send her an e-mail, letting her know that it’s my number one school, but I’m not quite sure what I should say. I know this sounds stupid, but I’m very pessimistic, and I’m afraid not saying anything might be better than saying the wrong thing.</p>