<p>I am OOS. It’s OK… NorCal v. SoCal thing is overrated!</p>
<p>I really wish playing tennis at UCLA was as convenient as it is when playing at home. I tend to always play at night and theres a 100% chance to get an empty court back home. I’d probably play a lot more at UCLA if there would always be a court for me :(.</p>
<p>lol mme i’m soon to become OOS. but i’ll always side with norcal!</p>
<p>I play tennis too and its true that tennis courts are way too hard to find at night… even if you do you’ll prolly get kicked off by IM or club tennis…</p>
<p>club tennis represent</p>
<p>i think sunset courts are easier to get on week nights while LATC might be eaiser on weekend nights</p>
<p>also, most of the times with the ppl at sunset is that they are already ready to go, but seeing that no one is there to take their court, they thought might as well stay and play some more. so if you just go there and ask every single court if they are done, you’ll eventually get one, although you might have to wait 10 to 20 minutes</p>
<p>does ucla lock up the courts at certain times? if so when?</p>
<p>regarding the original subject in this thread, i think it went friend -> boyfriend -> enemy. 
i think i am enemies w/ my ex now. 
:\ anybody have similar cases? yeah i just lost a friend. sux.</p>
<p>I NEED TO STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM!</p>
<p>rebound!</p>
<p>Go clean. That gets my mind off things!</p>
<p>I dont think they lock up courts, but its very hard to play without lights :(.</p>
<p>friend -> boyfriend -> enemy</p>
<p>LOL ME ME ME. Like, all my exes ended horrible. Lots of trash-talk. Ooh, she did this, she did that, so dirty blah blah blah. What a slut. Yeah right. Like I FORCED you into [naughty act(s)].</p>
<p>Okay, that was only a couple. </p>
<p>But yes, boyfriend -> enemy because he put me on hold to test drive a younger model. And then -> I want to be your friend again, So-and-so (with whom I was cheating on Whats-his-face) looks like he’s treating you sooo well and you look sooo happy and I’m so glad because I didn’t mean for things to turn out the way it did because I really did love you and still do blah blah.</p>
<p>Anyway.</p>
<p>Boyfriend/**** buddy/FWB -> enemy/someone to be avoided/someone you’ll never speak to ever again HAPPENS TO EVERYONE.</p>
<p>GET OVER YOURSELF! ):<</p>
<p>So what if you lost a “friend”? Make new ones. Delight in going through a rite of passage and now you can share ex (or WHY?!) stories with other women who have gone through douchewads, too. </p>
<p>Revel in your newfound singledom! Flirt! Slut around! Take control of your sexuality! Be empowered! Have fun with it. </p>
<p>Dude, when I got rid of So-and-so, I was suuuch a Debbie Downer. It was like, the end of my life. I’ll never love again. I lost 10 lbs, BUT I threw myself into my studies and got this redonkulously high GPA.</p>
<p>Thanks, So-and-so! You got me into UCLA. </p>
<p>So yeah, silver lining.</p>
<p>God, I don’t remember what the point of my post was. I feel like mme-lin after one of her Bar purges.</p>
<p>I know exactly how you feel, I just entered college and I only have one friend going here(we’re not even that close)…I met one girl I like to hang out with, but that’s it, and I don’t want to pester her constantly to hang out(she’s made LOTS of friends). </p>
<p>Atleast half the time I’m either eating alone or cooking crappy Ramen (which I am SO sick of) in my dorm.</p>
<p>My roommates aren’t that great(they’re sort of loud, never invite me to do anything, aren’t that friendly) and even sort of make fun of me for not making friends. They think it should be so easy to just get out there and start talking to people but it’s really not.</p>
<p>And I feel weird just calling up people like every day to see if they want to go eat with me.</p>
<p>Even right now I’m just sitting here in my dorm bored as ****.
I’m going to try to join some clubs for the first time in my life but I don’t know if I’ll be awkward or if I’ll actually meet anyone.
And I’m sorry about the boyfriend situation. I’ve only ever had a couple boyfriends but I know how it feels to be reminded of them constantly and have to hold back tears.</p>
<p>I’m a little over two hours away from home but that’s kind of far(uh, especially considering I don’t have a car and my dad doesn’t want me coming home every weekend…he thinks I should adjust.)</p>
<p>I really only talk to my dad on the weekends on the phone and sometimes my friends back home who I really miss.</p>
<p>Anyway, I don’t really know where I’m going with this but I felt like venting and telling you that you’re not alone.</p>
<p>edit: And LOL I just realized I responded to a post that’s two years old.</p>
<p>wow this is from my first year… what a bump 
DWM never come back to the forum these days?</p>
<p>
Make sure you’re choosing Shin Ramen.</p>
<p>Oh DWM, good memories.</p>
<p>DWAI mrspam :D</p>
<p>^good lord, I haven’t heard that in a while. remember that cc meetup where it was flopsy’s last year?</p>
<p>You are not a good fit for this school. Please transfer to UCSD.</p>
<p>LOL at Leah’s comment. It really is like a ghost town over there. </p>
<p>@ jbb303: I’m sure there at many at LA who feel the same way as you do. Put yourself out there! Introduce yourself to people!</p>