I can’t provide any input to your question, but just as FYI, one of mine has the exact same profile. Took a different (and longer) path for undergrad and is now in grad school doing incredibly well. There was a time in middle and high school when we hoped that a HS diploma would happen. Now it’s a masters and possibly doctorate. Just wanted to mention our anecdotal bit because there were many times that I lost sleep over how our kid would get through!
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