Yup—I have no idea if she’s jealous of anyone else but definitely of me. It’s too bad. Her H and I had a nice platonic friendship for over a decade. He’s never reached out since his wedding for fear of upsetting her. He was friendly when he ran into my brother and he was in town for a HS reunion and said he’d contact me (but never did).
Ah well, I wish them both well. They’ve been married over 35 years now. I figured the jealousy would fade but it appears not.
I’ve reached out and connected to other friends, including long term ex-boyfriends and no drama. My H has as well and in fact several attended our wedding, including my law school ex-boyfriend.