<p>USNA69: I am a grad and spent 28 years on active duty with many of them at sea. I commanded over 2300 personnel in that time so I think I have some ideas of leadership and involving the Chain of Command (officers and chiefs). I also know what taking responsibility really involves. I also know that the Commanding Officer, Executive Officer,Department Head, Division Officer or Chiefs never put themselves ahead of the personnel in their command. A good leader always seeks advice, makes the decision and takes responsilbility for the consequences. My direction to my officers and Chiefs was if it is a good decision you get credit. If it was a bad decision I get the credit. I am not sure this is the current case. Also, no comment about the senior officers and enlisted personnel doing push-ups on ESPN during the game? By the way, I have alot of good friends from you class and served with many a fine officer from '69. You are correct, “happy” was not a good word. How about “accept without complaining”?</p>