UD and JMU won’t be affordable, so I wouldn’t spend the money on the apps.
I encourage you to reconsider Community College. Are you still considering becoming an LPN and living with other family that you mentioned in another thread? 1 Year Deferral to get PN License?
That could be a good option. Here are some other jobs you can get with a two year degree. Then, you could work and attend a 4 year school to complete your bachelor’s degree. https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/finding-a-job/medical-jobs-with-associates-degree
In another thread austennut posted a list of companies that have tuition reimbursement. Have you looked into jobs at any of those companies? Chance and match a low stat [3.3 GPA], rising HS senior for JHU [chemistry or East Asian studies, pre-med] and for schools in MD [resident], VA, and DE [no contribution from divorced parents] - #124 by AustenNut