Champlain College or Curry College. The both have good graphic design programs and robust academic support. We know kids that have been happy at both places.
Definitely check out Rochester Institute of Technology. Don’t be fooled by the name, they have strength in the visual arts, and they have great disability support.
Whats your SAI and what’s your parents’ budget for college?
Would you qualify for HEOP?
If by HS graduation you will have taken Calculus, a CS class (or more), bio/chem/physics, then Cornell CALS’ Information Science major with either or both of these concentrations:
Digital Culture and Production
UX (User Experience)
would be right up your alley. In addition, you wouldn’t have to choose among the 7 concentrations until later on. It’s a reach but for NYS residents CALS is such a great bargain that it’s worth reaching for that. Not small (16,000 undergrads total, 3,400 in CALS). Good support but academically intense.