Match Me: Asian creative writing student from CA, 3.9 UW, band kid, scattered ECs (I have no idea what I'm doing)

Based on your interest in creative writing, a few of these colleges may be suitable for you:

Beyond the schools in the site above, consider Vassar and Skidmore as well, which match some of your general criteria; and If you can overcome your aversion to rural settings, look into Kenyon.