I would not rule out Michigan state Honors program. Forget what you heard since it’s just not factual. Go visit, meet with professors and make your own judgement. Same with Michigan - AA. But what might be interesting is Wayne State. Look at their course load and now people like living downtown.
Another school but might be on the edge of your limit is Iowa State university. They give a lot of merit and you might get financial aid as well. Might be worth a look.