Match My Child: NY, 3.6 UW, average rank, 1140 SAT, major in communications, Girl Scout, NHS, lots of art electives, ADHD [<$30k]

Have you run the Net Price Calculators on the privates? Fordham, for example, is pricey and if she is accepted, is unlikely to get merit. It would be hard to get that within your budget. I would check what NPC says.