Thank you! This is her second crop of schools-I did run the NPCs for a few, which she’s since decided not to apply to. 
Fordham, in particular, isn’t a concern because I really doubt she’ll get in. I did run the NPC and it seems like our contribution would be about $50k.
Tuition exchange would cover the entire cost of tuition, which would make a huge difference. I think we will need to find more schools that won’t be “squeakers” as far as acceptance goes-she’s more likely to get one at a school where her stats are well above the average, but I think that will be hard with her SAT.